'In days of old when
knights were bold', the men were the ones who went about the business of ruling
and running the country. The women remained in the background, cooking,
cleaning the house and bringing up the children. Nowadays the situation has
changed tremendously.
Modern women share the
responsibilities of ruling and running the country as much as the men. We have
women ministers, general managers, pilots and truck drivers. No longer are
women considered the "weaker" sex. They are on equal footing with
men. They are emancipated.
Does their emancipation result
in the enslavement of men ?
If we look at our
present society we can see that there are no male slaves. Granted some men help
in domestic chores, but merely changing diapers and frying fish in the kitchen
cannot constitute enslavement. In fact I know of men who genuinely love to cook
and look after their babies. Attitudes have changed. Men do not feel that it is
degrading to put the clothes into the washing machine, nor is it humiliating to
baby-sit while the wife goes out shopping. It is common to see men lugging
baskets full of groceries while their wives pay the cashier at the counter.
It is also common to
see women driving buses full of male passengers. These men are not slaves.
Any man who feels
ashamed sitting in a bus driven by a women, or feels offended when a woman
earns more than him, or feels degraded when a lady policeman gives him a
speeding ticket, or generally thinks he is superior to women, ought to do a lot
of rethinking. Times have changed. The all-powerful tyrannical male no longer
exists. In its place are sane men who share the world equally with women.
In some parts of the
world, old customs and prejudices still prevail. There the women are
still considered second-rate. The male dominates and the female follows meekly
behind. However it will just be a matter of time when these women too will get
their emancipation. For the moment they may yet hide behind their apron
strings, but sooner or later their society will catch up with the rest of the
progressive world. Hopefully then they can be free from the yoke of ignorance
that had been stifling them for centuries. God knows what great talents had
been wasted because these women were not given any chance to prove themselves.
When these women too
receive some form of liberation, it is then up to the men not to feel threatened.
Instead of considering the women as challengers, the men should welcome them as
equal partners in this business of living. The end of enslavement of women does
not mean the beginning of the enslavement of men unless a man is bigoted enough
to enslave himself.
Summary: In olden days, men were
the ones ruling and running the country. Women remained in the background.
Nowadays the situation has changed tremendously. No longer are women considered
the "weaker" sex. They are on equal footing with men. Today men help in
domestic chores. Attitudes have changed. The all-powerful tyrannical male no
longer exists. men share the world equally with women. However, in some parts
of the world, women are still considered second-rate, but it will be a matter
of time when these women get their emancipation. The end of enslavement of
women does not mean the beginning of the enslavement of men.
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